We absolutely love that the Outer Banks has been the venue of choice for popping the question! The Outer Banks sets the stage for unforgettable moments, and what could be more magical than a proposal by the beach? From stunning sunsets and iconic landmarks to intimate spots tucked away in nature, the OBX offers endless romantic settings to ask the biggest question of your life. Whether on a sandy beach, atop a historic dune, or under a canopy of stars, this guide will help you find the perfect place to start your forever.
First up, the most popular choice, and we must admit, is a good one to consider!
A Proposal on the Beach
Write “Will you marry me?” in the sand or drop to one knee after "finding a shell" during a walk on the beach. Either method is sure to result in a resounding "YES"!
Want to find lodging as close to the beach as possible? Explore our selection of Oceanfront, Semi-Oceanfront, and Oceanside homes.
Let Your Love Shine with a Lighthouse Proposal
Beneath the sweeping views of the Atlantic or surrounded by the historic charm of the lighthouse grounds, a proposal at an Outer Banks lighthouse is unforgettable.
Beautiful moment captured by Brooke Mayo Photographers!
Jockey’s Ridge – The Sands of Time Meet Forever Love
Jockey’s Ridge is the tallest living dune system on the East Coast. It is located in Nags Head and offers hours of exploration across vast sandy dunes with stunning views of the Atlantic Ocean and the Roanoke Sound.
We recommend parking in the Carolista Drive lot, where your adventure begins with a beautiful wooded path leading to the breathtaking expanse of the ridge.
Bring a blanket and picnic to find your sunset spot tucked among smaller dunes, or, if you’re hoping for a round of applause or a photo-snapping audience, head to the top of a dune where you’ll likely find other ridge explorers enjoying the view.
Want to find lodging as close to Jockey's Ridge as possible? Explore our selection of homes in Nags Head.
Hooked on Love – Reel It In from the Pier
From Kitty Hawk down to South Nags Head, you'll find several fishing piers stretching out over the Atlantic, each offering its own unique charm. Once you’ve chosen your venue, the next decision awaits—on the pier, or under it?
If you choose on the pier, walk out over the water as the waves roll gently beneath you toward the shore. For an unforgettable twist, maybe even enlist the help of a fisherman to reel in the ultimate catch of the day—the engagement ring.
Need a little liquid courage or a spot to celebrate afterward? Avalon Pier, Nags Head Pier, and the Outer Banks Pier all have restaurants and bars that are perfect for raising a glass to the big moment.
For a more intimate setting, head under the pier before it opens, when the beach is still quiet, and the sound of the waves creates the perfect romantic backdrop. Will it be at sunrise with the soft golden glow, or at sunset as the sky turns fiery red?
Either way, ensure you’ve got a firm grip on that ring—it’s one catch you don’t want to lose!
Or, if you want to kick things up a notch, why not knock the proposal out of the park with an Airplane Banner Fly By!
Want to find lodging near the pier? We have several piers and hundreds of options to choose from. Explore our selection of homes in Kill Devil Hills, Nags Head, and South Nags Head.
Hope Floats - On the Water
There are so many ways you can get out on the water here on the Outer Banks. If a kayak sounds like the perfect way to pop the question, we have several homes that provide them, or you can rent one (or two) from our friends at Ocean Atlantic Rentals. If you would like to instead enjoy the view of the water from shore, why not consider one of our homes with a private dock to set the stage. Again, if you are hoping for an audience to share the moment with or to snap a photo or video to commemorate the occasion, then perhaps a sunset sail or dolphin cruise is the way to go. Visit our OBX Watersports page for helpful links to boat charters, rentals, and more.
Want to find lodging on the water? Explore our selection of waterfront homes.
Atop Kill Devil Hill – A Proposal Worth Wright-ing About
Take your proposal to new heights—literally! Kick it up a notch by chartering a biplane tour, giving you a bird's eye view from above the Wright Brothers Monument, where modern flight began. Soar over majestic sights like Jockey's Ridge, Oregon Inlet, and the beautiful coastline. Afterward, hike to the top of Kill Devil Hill, where history was made, and let the monumental setting serve as the backdrop for your unforgettable moment.
Want to find lodging near the Wright Brothers National Memorial? Explore our selection of homes in Kill Devil Hills.
Elizabethan Gardens - Where Love Doth Bloom Eternal
Surrounded by vibrant blooms, elegant statues, and timeless beauty, the Elizabethan Gardens create a magical setting for romance. Whether beneath an ancient oak or beside a cascading fountain, love truly blooms eternal in these historic gardens.
Elizabethan Gardens proposal captured by Brooke Mayo Photographers!
Want to find lodging near the gardens? Roanoke Island is just a short drive from the towns of Nags Head and South Nags Head.
Timeless Charm Along Manteo’s Waterfront
The Manteo Historic Waterfront is the perfect setting for romance. Stroll along the scenic boardwalk, where views of sailboats and tranquil waters set a dreamy tone. With its quaint shops, cozy cafes, and timeless maritime charm, Manteo offers countless romantic backdrops, including the iconic Roanoke Marshes Lighthouse. Whether you propose under the gazebo, on a quiet bench by the water, or near one of the town’s historic landmarks, this charming waterfront promises moments you’ll treasure forever.
Another beautiful moment captured by Brooke Mayo Photographers!
Want to find lodging near the Manteos Historic Waterfront? Roanoke Island is just a short drive from the towns of Nags Head and South Nags Head.
It Was Always Written in the Stars
Free from the glare of city lights, the stars shine brighter here on the Outer Banks, making for the perfect setting for promises as boundless as the cosmos. Choose your spot, and the starry night sky will be there to add a little extra magic to your special moment.
Bodie Island Lighthouse photographed by Erin Lesnick Photography.
Popular Wedding Venues
Once the Outer Banks has hosted your engagement, it only makes sense to hold the wedding here too! The most popular months for OBX weddings are April, May, September, and October, but weddings happen year-round.
Whether you’re looking for an intimate beachfront ceremony or a large estate to host the whole wedding party, we have options to suit every need. Explore wedding and event homes from 4×4 Carova Beach, Corolla, to South Nags Head. Our website makes it easy for your out-of-town guests to search for accommodations nearby and with their must-have's, such as homes that allow pets, offer elevators, private pools, hot tubs, and short stays, or homes that are close to one another to accommodate multiple families.
The majority of Outer Banks brides choose to do a simple beach wedding ceremony followed by a tented reception at their vacation home. This option provides flexibility and convenience, and we have helped many engaged couples secure their lodging and event home for their special day! However, the Outer Banks offers many great venues to hold a Wedding Ceremony and Reception. Here are a few:
- Whalehead Club in Corolla
- Roanoke Island Festival Park
- Jennette’s Pier
- The Currituck Club
- Kitty Hawk Fishing Pier
- Elizabethan Gardens
- The North Carolina Aquarium
- 108 Budleigh, Manteo
- Sanctuary Vineyards
We hope this list has sparked some ideas on how to pop the question! We would love to be a part of your big day, starting with your proposal, and ending with making memories with Outer Banks family vacations for years to come.